About the song
Earl Thomas Conley, a renowned country music singer and songwriter, penned “Holding Her and Loving You” as a heartfelt ballad about the enduring power of love and the importance of cherishing every moment. This poignant song, released in 1987, became a hit single and a staple on Conley’s live performances.
With his distinctive voice and emotive delivery, Conley paints a vivid picture of a man deeply in love with his partner. The song explores themes of gratitude, appreciation, and the simple joys of companionship. Through introspective lyrics and Conley’s soulful vocals, listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences and emotions.
The opening lines, “I’m holding her, loving you, more than I ever thought I could,” set the stage for a song that celebrates the beauty and simplicity of love. Conley acknowledges the challenges and uncertainties that often accompany relationships, but he remains hopeful and optimistic. The song’s refrain, “Holding her, loving you, it’s the best thing I’ve ever done,” conveys a sense of gratitude and contentment.
Throughout the song, Conley uses vivid imagery and relatable anecdotes to illustrate his love for his partner. He references the “old familiar places” they have shared memories and the “simple pleasures” that bring them joy. The lyrics evoke a sense of nostalgia and a longing for the present moment, reminding listeners to cherish the time they have with loved ones.
“Holding Her and Loving You” is more than just a romantic ballad; it is a testament to the enduring power of human connection. Conley’s heartfelt lyrics and soulful performance resonate with listeners of all ages, reminding us of the importance of love, companionship, and the simple joys of life. This timeless classic continues to touch the hearts of audiences worldwide, serving as a reminder that the pursuit of love and happiness is a universal experience.
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Lyrics
It’s the third-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leavin’ here without you
And the second-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is tellin’ her about you
She’s been good to me when things were goin’ rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
If she’d give me one good reason, I’d be gone
She ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more
She’s been good to me when things weren’t goin’ right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Girl, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you