About the song
Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes’ “If You Don’t Know Me By Now,” released in 1972, is a timeless soul classic that has cemented the group’s reputation as one of the most influential acts in the genre. The song’s poignant lyrics, coupled with Teddy Pendergrass’ powerful vocals and the soulful harmonies of the Blue Notes, have made it a cultural touchstone.
“If You Don’t Know Me By Now” is a heartfelt ballad that explores the themes of love, loss, and the passage of time. The song’s lyrics are filled with emotion and vulnerability, as Pendergrass sings about his enduring love for a woman who has grown distant. The melancholic tone is amplified by the group’s soulful harmonies and the poignant saxophone solo.
Musically, “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” is a beautifully crafted soul song that showcases the group’s songwriting and musicianship. The arrangement is rich and textured, featuring a driving rhythm section, soulful horns, and Pendergrass’ powerful vocals. The song’s memorable melody and catchy chorus make it a joy to listen to.
Beyond its commercial success, “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” has become a cultural touchstone, influencing countless artists and cementing Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes’ legacy as pioneers of soul music. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its timeless appeal and its ability to connect with listeners on a deep emotional level. As we listen to “If You Don’t Know Me By Now” today, we are reminded of the power of music to evoke powerful emotions and the enduring legacy of Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes’ artistry.
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Lyrics
If you don’t know me by now
You will never never never know me (oh)
All the things that we’ve been through
You should understand me like I understand you
Now baby I know the difference between right and wrong
I ain’t gonna do nothing to upset our happy home
Oh don’t get so excited when I come home a little late at night
‘Cause we only act like children when we argue fuss and fight
If you don’t know me by now (if you don’t know me)
You will never never never know me (you’ll never, never know me)
If you don’t know me by now(if you don’t, if you don’t know me baby)
You will never never never know me(No you won’t)
We’ve all got our own funny moods
I’ve got mine, woman you’ve got yours too
Just trust in me like I trust in you
As long as we’ve been together it should be so easy to do
Just get yourself together or we might as well say goodbye
What good is a love affair when you can’t see eye to eye, oh
If you don’t know me by now (if you don’t, if you don’t know me baby)
You will never never never know me (hey hey, hey hey, hey hey)
If you don’t know me by now (you will never never never know me)
You will never never never know me (oh)